Hi, I solo traveled a lot in my late twenties, mostly in Asia, even did a study abroad in Japan for half a year.<\/p>\n
I’m in my 30s now, no child or spouse, and I really want to go to Asia again and I want to solo travel again but I feel…old?<\/p>\n
I used to stay in the cheapest hostels that smell bad in dirty neighborhoods, make friends in guesthouses (no lifelong friends) and I feel like I was less careful and more spontaneous. I went clubbing all night, went on adventurous trips, said yes to everything.<\/p>\n
I don’t know why I feel like I can’t do it anymore now that I’m 31. I don’t even go clubbing in my own country anymore. I don’t feel like staying in hostels and guesthouses again but what’s the fun in staying at a nice hotel if I can’t meet locals that are on a trip in their own country? I also feel too old to make ‘friends’ at hostels, the friendships are shallow and I feel like I can spend my time better, like traveling with my friends and create memories with them. But on the other hand, I want to SOLO travel through Asia again and they only want to go to 1 country, Japan or Korea, and only want to do anime-manga or k-pop things you know.<\/p>\n
I was wondering if someone recognizes themselves in this and do you have tips? I wonder if I’m overthinking too much.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Hi, I solo traveled a lot in my late twenties, mostly in Asia, even did a study abroad in Japan for half a year. I’m in my 30s now, no child or spouse, and I really want to go to Asia again and I want to solo travel again but I feel…old? I used to […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":119,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-106","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-forum"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cabosanlucasbeaches.com\/travels\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/106","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cabosanlucasbeaches.com\/travels\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cabosanlucasbeaches.com\/travels\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cabosanlucasbeaches.com\/travels\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cabosanlucasbeaches.com\/travels\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=106"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.cabosanlucasbeaches.com\/travels\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/106\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cabosanlucasbeaches.com\/travels\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/128"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cabosanlucasbeaches.com\/travels\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=106"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cabosanlucasbeaches.com\/travels\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=106"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cabosanlucasbeaches.com\/travels\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=106"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}